Anyone 30 and up still figuring out their purpose in life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At the point when I was looking for a personal improvement coach, a friend gave me a piece of advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
By and by, that familiar feeling I get like clockwork was bugging me: Unfulfilled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here I am in my 30s and almost every goal or dream I had has already materialized.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’ve been location-independent for six years now, sans cubicle. I’ve adventured a lot with more to come. I married the man who fiercely safeguards the same values I maintain: Happiness = Health + Love + Opportunity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So for what reason do I feel disrupted?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Japanese call it ikigai. The French, raison d’\u00eatre. I call it the thing that keeps me up at night and fills my journal with question marks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For the first time ever, I’m wondering about my legacy. What will I leave behind when I’m no more?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’m really not okay with unused life or talents. \u2014 me<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I read books, built self-development routines, and traveled for inspiration. Yet, what I’d never tried is to hire a coach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So I had ‘discovery calls’ with certain possibilities to find The One.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Like others who have never worked with a coach, I was making these newbie mistakes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Looking for somebody ‘very much like me’<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Expecting that individual to have the answers<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Confusing a coach with a tutor<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rolling my eyes at anyone who says “Simply follow your passions”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At some point, a friend told me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That changed how I view coaching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So I picked the person who asked the best questions and vibed well with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s incredible the way that the right guidance leads to additional clarity and better decisions. I’m also getting more answers to my questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Up until this point, the road has driven me to build consistent daily routines (for example writing, nature walks, meditation), revive a dormant task, and have a fired up outlook on what’s to come.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I don’t have the foggiest idea what my legacy is yet, however I’m following the breadcrumbs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’m getting there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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